Where is the real lack of family education

 The absence of family education, where
of the real: Fu Jun Wei Huang transferred from:
family education What is the best?
In education, methods of power is limited, the issue of parents teaching children a real lack of what is it, really needs is not the way, is the state, the educational status of parents. Now there are many mothers I feel more terrible reason, when referring to child, based on the lack of emotion, lack of emotional support, mother, children in the education of this reason the issue is very scary. father and education is a distance, a distance is not terrible, but his father in the family education to show the location of this space, to express clearly the child at home What is the spiritual orientation.
best education is a lack of enthusiasm for learning the face of lack of heart. focuses on raising fish in water, keep focusing on raising the tree roots, focusing on dependent care center. If a child's heart at home, which are not conservation, the lack of effective nourishment, talent there is no basis for smart; IQ so high, there is no appropriate, the corresponding state of mind support, talent is difficult to play. We do not speak the child's mind first, how, take a look at the heart of the people raising children, which is suitable to the hearts of the parents raising children, or how to raise children in the state. study how to ignite passion for the inner child, light requires a certain temperature, requires a certain state in order to fire. If the parents of the heart is cold, numb or anxious, it is difficult to ignite the enthusiasm of children to learn. In the face of any state of the child regardless of the time, to ensure that the mother calm emotions, this is your greatest education of children.
correct interpretation of the meaning of the word parent to the child the father
shown in front of a quality that is grace. father, what means to educate their children, is to use their manners. at what time the performance of grace, especially in the face of adversity can not accept people who meet her, meet other people make mistakes when his father how to show grace, which is a force to bring the inner child, but also give the child a space.
mother's must interpret the meaning.
first word is mothers see their children's strengths and weaknesses when they are not moving, why not to move, because it requires the advantages of a good mother to nurture and protect the emotional, only the mother see the child the advantages and disadvantages are unemotional when to give impetus to grow inside the child. Some parents are wondering, the children are very good in front of others, a home, saw his mother becomes like another person, becomes incomprehensible. Why is This . confident and strong. you want your child to self-confidence it? show weakness in front of children learn, can be achieved weakness lifted the child, the child who stood in his heart to speak of the parents, in fact, in the suppression of children's growth and development.
the first three words are front of the children's ability to command stronger voice in the day who pulled the children crying, the mother of the child screaming, children will gradually lose the ability of this guide.
the first place where the mentality of the parents? < br> The first place where the mentality of the parents? us how to keep his mind well, Do not report class, do not rush to find tutoring, do not rush to find some way what level to solve this problem. Family Education re- In support, rather than teaching, which today is the interpretation of the word, one heart, one love, careless unintentional characteristics of family education, family education, enthusiastic and polite is the effective implementation of the principle must be observed.
Education is not fixed, to treat children of different families, different stages of growth require different methods, but there is a principle to be enthusiastic and polite, the situation in front of the ceremony. Now the status of family education, what is it, sentient rude. love children When no edge of love, care for children, even the children have parents give him to wear socks, wash him, when children love to say love the morning, when the next call, or even to help the child to wear clothes, called love? This situation has lost the value of education. Another status quo is ruthlessly polite, especially the parents give their children the time to reason, not emotion bedding. any level of education, the first was to give educators by educators to convey their true inner feelings. feelings spared to spare our children want to ask us to take something, we point out at this time only then truth. to a certain degree of emotional exchange, when the children would say, Mom how can I do that, or dad how can I do, this time a little truth in the past, be possible to achieve a guide to bring the child's ability.
inner anxiety and impulsive parents than children with learning problems can
children learn problem is not afraid of terrible, terrible lead to children feeling the pinch of the underlying source of these disturbances, the basic level of support in turmoil, even more terrible. how to achieve emotional self-control parents, that is, the emergence of a little child question, you first do not worry about, not impatient, you calm down first, first adjust their emotions first, and then face the problem.
how to achieve emotional self-control and management, which is the parents of a deep levels of problems. Rational Thinking inside the sediment to the heart, a condition for his deposition, otherwise, Education is like water off land as wetlands, from every heart flow. effect where you can do is to think of education precipitation, precipitation into your heart, into your in a state without this kind of process, you listen to any report are valid. no precipitation of the digest, there is no implementation of education capital, which is not precipitated process, we can not hold education experts in their own home to go to achieve something.
family education space must be reserved for family education children do
clear, efforts should be done in two, one father, a mother in the middle this section, any child's growth is in the process of winding finished, this space should be left to children, leave it alone.
-class parents to rely on release, but not the education Parents rely on pipes, the failure of the child is one hundred percent, put the child half of the success. every day, the family holding the child tightly to jump to the wrong space, this space is completed for each child their own independent But many parents participate in the space inside staring at the link, pull it out, let him control not, would not let him control can not control the other things. Some parents say, you let me put you on the matter of the ? let you put not matter, so that you stand inside your character, to do maintenance on the child's emotions rather than the child's behavior over what level of participation. too much involved mean that we knew, working diligently at making mistakes .
parental education energy release, sufficient to ignite the enthusiasm of children to learn when a person
lose enthusiasm for learning, the better the IQ is also not to mention a good play. Some parents say children behave badly , do not study, we can solve this problem, you can find the answer. talked a temperament, as we as professional habits. If a parent's heart is always cold, fickle state, any educational psychological thought in his face, like playing table tennis as it fell back, the child is the same. parents Emotional mood pregnant with the child to learn and temperament.
energy start home education, parents and children must first start the flow of natural emotion inside. We emotions between parents and children and the emotional strength, to achieve the level. Chi is hot, hot enough to grill the extent of the child inside. what means to shape the child's mind, shaping the child's temperament, that is, the right to take our parents love. Now I'm most worried about not only on the performance of the child, and is the lack of love, righteousness fuzzy, parents love their children and the meaning is the biggest enlightening enlightenment this one if you lose power, the performance of children can certainly be a pity.
family education should stand to the culture and philosophy of the space to look at.
the return of family education is the truth watch and heritage and culture, family education can no longer stand to the methods and technical aspects to toss, and should stand to the culture and philosophy of the space to look at. Shandong is culture, sacred sites, Qilu culture Youyi Qi culture as a leader, in a broad homogeneous cultural space inside, we should not stand to look at education in cultural space?
all parents is a carrier of culture, different families culture cultivated the temperament of the child are different. Culture is the banner of education and education to achieve the highest point is the cultural, culture and of the, do not speak the child will be in our hearts probation, and while producing another vitality. < br> parents, the quality of their education training and upgrading, just to achieve the educational function of the family after the start of .90 inside the logic of children, and our hearts observed between adults is not the same logic, there is a conflict, but they This logic is not necessarily bad, we need to develop, in the face, and guidance. We should ask our education is enough reserves, the energy we have enough family education, our educational accomplishment enough.